Archive for February, 2011

Dating Advice For The Older Woman

Saturday, February 19th, 2011

Dating as an older woman will take extra consideration to find a good mate and plan a great date. From finding a suitable partner to going on the actual date, here are some simple tips that will help you out.

Find An Appropriate Site

If you are wanting to date someone your age, be sure you sign up for a site that caters to your generation. This will allow you to browse appropriate profiles without worrying about being bombarded by requests from those only interested in dating an older woman because they are older. While the Cougar phenomenon has spread globally, this may not be your cup of tea.

Dating Younger Men

Many women are looking to date younger men. They are more active, more vibrant, and bring youth to the situation. If you choose to go this route, you must understand that no matter how mature they act, there is always going to be an age gap. This gap can create issues with life views and maturity levels. Be realistic. You won’t find a handsome younger guy who has the life experience you do.

You Hold The Cards

Don’t allow yourself to feel pressured when on a date. If the man is acting too aggressive, or is just rude, you need to let him know you will not tolerate this. After all, it’s completely your decision if you want to finish the date and pursue more. Many younger men think that older women want someone who is aggressive. If you let them know up front that you aren’t looking for that and they cross a line, don’t hesitate to get up and walk away.